If he needed a kidney they would be there, lining up to be tested. No hesitation at all.
If he needed a liver they would be lined up too, ready to donate a lobe at the drop of a hat.
But the problem is Donte Moore’s heart.
The 28-year-old Akron man’s health trauma is complicated and urgent. It got that way so fast that it has left those close to him stunned.
While they feel helpless, they are not hopeless.
After the initial shock, Donte’s dedicated cadre of friends have been mobilized to help, while Donte has been on life support for nearly three weeks at University Hospitals in Cleveland.
Longtime friend Matt Coleman, an Akron firefighter, said Donte — who grew up in Kenmore and is part of a regular basketball-playing posse at Kenmore Church of the Nazarene — thought he had a cold at first.
Coleman said his friend downplayed the brief episode of chest pains during a pick-up game. But he got sick overnight and wasn’t able to report to work the next day at the Basement restaurant in North Canton. He’s also a student at Stark State College studying computer technology.
“When he woke up he was having a hard time breathing,” Coleman said.
He initially went to Summa Barberton Hospital, but within a few hours was sent to Akron City Hospital where he was diagnosed with myocarditis, inflammation of the heart muscle. When his breathing became more labored, he was transferred to University Hospitals. “The situation was so bad that doctors there were talking about a possible heart transplant,” Coleman relayed, adding that Donte was placed in an induced coma.
Complicating matters was that like so many Americans, Donte didn’t have health insurance, and his medical bills began to soar in a hurry.
If he needs a heart transplant, that will mean even more money that neither he nor his family has.
Holding vigil
Proof positive of the high esteem Donte Moore is held in, his friends hold vigil individually and collectively at the hospital, making the drive to Cleveland after jobs and other commitments in Akron. They’re working like there’s no tomorrow raising money to help with Donte’s medical bills now and in the future.
While it may be difficult to find the time to do all that they’re doing, they’re buoyed in the knowledge that Donte — described as a volunteer who has worked on all sorts of projects with community groups — surely would do the same for any of them.
Two weekends ago, Coleman and other friends of Donte, like Shawn Steiner, hurriedly organized a spaghetti dinner benefit at the VFW on Waterloo Road and raised thousands of dollars. A crowd that easily numbered between 500 and 600 folks, hungry to help Donte, showed up.
“I was humbled by the outpouring of support,” Coleman said.
In addition to the dinner, T-shirts and “Prayers for Donte” wristbands also were sold.
“We just knew we had to do something,” Coleman said. “You just can’t put a dollar amount on your best friend’s life!
“We played football together at Kenmore High School and have been good friends ever since … He’s close to my family, too … He’s just a genuinely good person. We hate to see something so bad happen to someone so good! … So, we’re fighting for him.”
Waiting and praying
Even though Donte has no way of knowing, some 100 folks traveled to the hospital in a middle of a snowstorm for a vigil to show their support. Sources have said even the nurses began crying at the sight.
Donte’s mother, Stacy Moore, and his girlfriend, Barb Bradley, are always at the hospital waiting and praying.
“We’ve all taken to Facebook because every one of us knows some people,” Coleman said. “Every one of us is playing a role.”
Tim Adkins and daughter Melissa DeGuia co-own the Basement Sports Bar & Grill where Donte has been the head cook for 2½ years.
“When I see him in the hospital, it’s the first time I’ve been around him when he didn’t make me laugh,” Adkins said, his words weighed with emotion. “He was always smiling, always so helpful.”
“We have 100 employees,” Adkins continued. “We put a letter in everybody’s paycheck saying that one of the Basement family members is ill. Most knew the story already. We said, ‘If one of you were ill, Donte would be first guy at your fundraiser. So let’s show up, do what we can and sell tickets.’ The Basement sold 300 tickets alone [for the VFW fundraiser] at 10 bucks each … There were so many volunteers there that it renewed my faith in humanity,” Adkins said.
“It was a day when everyone came together in love! I’m sure when Donte gets out he will give everybody a big hug!”
Nothing definite is known about a treatment plan for Donte Moore, as it’s still day to day.
As news spread about Donte’s condition, Mark Richards, assistant news director at WNIR radio, took to the airwaves.
“I do not know Donte personally,” Richards acknowledged in an email. “His issues were brought to my attention by my daughters, both graduates of Kenmore High School (where my wife and I graduated in 1976). Both of the girls played in the high school band and orchestra …
“I saw a post on (Donte’s friend) Marty Micale’s page yesterday which sounded promising, but also points to a long road ahead for this young man as he is not out of the woods yet.”
Adkins called it amazing that every time he’s at the hospital, 30 or more people are there: “And that’s in Cleveland, not local. We sit around in the waiting room sharing stories about Donte.”
Adkins, who served as the emcee at the fundraiser, introduced Donte’s girlfriend “as the strongest woman I know because she’s always comforting everyone else, telling us ‘he’s going to be OK.’ ”
Indeed, everyone is praying for a positive outcome.
“It’s rare when I see a young man who has had such an impact and influence on so many people,” Richards continued. “And what’s most heartwarming is the fact they have rallied around him as they have. The more information I obtained, the more I felt the story must be told.”
Let’s all take to heart the message of these friendships and the wristbands, and pray for Donte Moore.
Jewell Cardwell can be reached at 330-996-3567 or jcardwell@thebeaconjournal.com